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TRANS RITES (AND READS)
Every Month
Monthly reviews of my current read,
and the occasional upload of my writing practice
(if you want a trans perspective)

Maybe its not been my week, month or year but...
Is there ever a moment in life where things calm down? Just for a day? It seems there’s always something urgent that must be dealt with, always something unexpected that’s gone wrong and needs to be prioritised ASAP! As it turns out, this issue I’ve been having with Student Finance that I thought was resolved was of course, decidedly NOT resolved, and my course has had to remove me until a payment method has been confirmed. Thanks, The Student Finance Company. So, while I
Kaidan
Apr 242 min read
New Trend Alert
Guys have you heard about Cyberdecks?!?! I just found out about them (I’m always late to the party, I already know, but I don’t like going out), but they actually sound really cool. Apparently it’s a new Gen Z trend that the girlies are really into are doing right now. I read that the name seems to have come from the game Cyberpunk (I actually rated this game when it came out, suck on it Fallout fans). As a fan of 80s nostalgia, cosplay, and the cyberpunk fashion and aestheti
Kaidan
Apr 172 min read
Building positive habits
This week I have been working on building a daily writing and reading habit. It’s odd to have to work on this when it once came so easily to me, used to be you’d never see me without a book in my hands, even while walking down the street sometimes. I’d have to keep looking up so I wouldn’t walk into somebody, or a lamppost or a bin or something. But it’s been over a decade since I stopped, and I’m very out of practice. I blame education and social media for my declining inter
Kaidan
Apr 102 min read
Life Begins At 30
Our parents once told us that our youth was going to be the best time of our lives. This turned out to be irresponsibly untrue. We then spent years getting conditioned into believing that our 20s was supposed to be this brilliant coming-of-age, liberating fun-filled time, enjoying university, travelling, having experiences, falling in love, building our career… But adulthood did not turn out to resemble an episode of FRIENDS. Nor did it resemble Sex and The City, New Girl, Th
Kaidan
Apr 34 min read
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